About me

Simply an ordinary woman who was born in the early 1960’s, a product of her parents. Living a life most ordinary until a life changing event, that was never a thought of possibility, turned my world upside down.

This blog is about my experiences of grief following that heart wrenching event of the sudden death of our son. My choice of undertaking therapy and the progression of my experiences that arose and still arise through that. I still live an ordinary life, yet my view is now most extraordinary ordinary!

I have started with my grief and my simple observations of what it meant to me. I have progressed to sharing what my life was like in my perspective growing up and the events that I recall. This is a simple base line for anyone who chooses to read it to see where I come from in ‘known’ experiences so as when I share my recent experiences there is some background to the revelations and discoveries that emerge from the bones of me.

Those things from deep beneath the surface of conscious knowing and living ordinarily. To ponder on those question marks of phantasmagoria and considered lunacy.

What is unseen isn’t necessarily unreal. What arises and is felt as real can be a truth of one’s own.